The shelf · Loneliness and solitude

Does Together hold up?

Together: The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World, by Vivek H. Murthy (2020)

The former US Surgeon General's case that loneliness is a public-health problem and connection a remedy.

The short answer

The direction is sound, but its famous figures are often stretched: the study behind them measured social ties broadly, not loneliness.

The claims, checked

The mortality effect of weak social ties is like smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

Holds with conditions The source paper measured social relationships broadly and says only that the effect is comparable with quitting smoking. Living alone was the weakest measure, with a result that could be chance.

Evidence: Holt-Lunstad et al., 2010

People with weak social relationships are 50% more likely to die early.

Does not hold As worded, no. The meta-analysis of 148 studies reports 50% higher odds of survival for people with stronger ties. Odds are not risks, and a figure turned around for the other group is not the same figure.

Evidence: Holt-Lunstad et al., 2010